Strap-On Harnesses & Kits

Guide on Strap-on for Sex

Strap-ons are a great way to experience penetrative sex. Women can strap on a dildo to give their partners anal penetration, while men can also strap on a dildo to give their partners vaginal or anal penetration, or both. Dildos and harnesses mean that you can have a hands-free romp and use your hands for other things like playing with his balls, tweaking her nipples, grabbing his butt cheeks. 

People also like the closeness a strap-on affords partners during penetration. Having strap-on sex can be part of fantasy role-playing or gender play for some partners. It gives women the opportunity to learn a new way to give pleasure by having a dick. It’s also a chance for couples to incorporate a sex toy into their bedroom routine in a new way.

Some of the Best Strap-on Sex Toys You Can Try

• Unisex strap-on - This comes with a realistically large penis and harness for both men and women to enjoy the penetration sex; women can do their male partner and experience a whole new world of having a dick while men can do their female partner when their penis had done enough for the day. Gay and lesbian couples can also consider this strap-on sex toy.

• Strap-on with vibrator - For folks who don’t just want penetration but a vibration too. It comes with ten vibration modes to fulfil every vibration hunger you may have, and it’s waterproof, which means they are super easy to clean.

• 3 in 1 action strap-on - This is for advanced couples featuring three dildos for three holes. A female partner can wear it with both her holes (ass and vagina) filled with the dildo and penetrate her male or female partner in the ass or vagina.

How to use a Strap-on Harness

To put on a harness, first, buckle all the straps together but keep it loose, slip the dildo through the O-ring, and step into the harness as if it were a pair of underwear or shorts. Then position the dildo, adjust the straps, and tighten them. Or you can put the strap around your hips, put the dildo through the O-ring, then buckle or fasten the other strap (or straps). Make sure you buckle or fasten it so that it’s tight against your body.

A common mistake beginners make is that they leave it too loose. You want to position the dildo where it’s most comfortable for you. Learning how to wield a strap-on skillfully takes practice and patience. If you feel like the dildo is moving around too much or doesn’t feel secure, then your harness isn’t tight enough, and you should adjust it. In the beginning, you may want to guide the dildo with your hand, which will give you more control of exactly where it’s going. And when your partner is ready for penetration, be gentle and go slowly.

Now that you know how to use a strap-on for sex, you can shop for a strap-on harness or a complete strap-on dildo kit in our store here.